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A DOOR WITHOUT A HANDLE, A BOLT AND A LOCK

A Door Without a Handle, a Bolt and a Lock   🚪🔒 ✍️


Dear friends my today's writeup is about how a person is treated if he/she doesn't set boundaries or doesn't care to protect their emotions and existence as well.

Here I am portraying a person without self control and without defining his/her boundaries as a DOOR WITHOUT A HANDLE.

Have you ever noticed a door without a handle. Such types of doors cannot be easily  operated similarly if you do not have control over your emotions anyone can come and push you away and enter your space and even the near and dear ones find it difficult to help and need extra effort to close such door from outside as nothing is there to hold the door. Similarly others cannot help you if you are like a door without a handle . In this situation any narcissist can come and kick your door, slam it on your face without thinking even once and stamping on your emotions will destroy all your beautiful creations.  

So for your well being and to have a good experience in your life you must have a choice to select whom you wish to be part of your beautiful life and whom you don't. For this you should have clarity in your mind and a good control on your door. 

"YOU NEED TO HAVE A HANDLE " 

Now if the door is not having any bolt , this situation means your protection is compromised. To protect your inner peace, your charm, your emotions , your every valuable self you must have a bolt on your door. If there is no bolt anyone can come and open your space and do whatever they feel ok. But that might not be ok for you. So better you definitely have a bolt on your door. 

I think you might have got what I am saying.

Don't be a door without a handle,a bolt and of course if needed for your survival you also put a lock 

Go and check your door , you know what I mean 

Taking good care of your personal space , your emotions, your inner peace is as important as you are breathing. This will definitely help you to live a better life with all good experiences by not allowing any chaos into your life. 

One last thing we should always welcome good things and choices in our life without thinking much and keep our doors open to create a beautiful world within ❤️

Have a great time my friends 😊 and start creating a happy and healthy life around you 👍 Do share this post with your family and friends too 😊. 

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